Meet your Instructors
Hi, We’re Demetric & Shukura Martin
My wife and I weren’t always equipped for love — and we definitely weren’t prepared for marriage. Like many others, we were unaware of what God’s Word actually said about relationships.
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I grew up surrounded by marriages that looked successful on the outside, but behind closed doors, joy was missing. I had love in my heart, but no wisdom in my foundation. By 23, I found myself divorced and devastated. That’s when the Holy Spirit stepped in and began to reshape everything.
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Over the next three years, I went all in. I devoured hundreds of books, interviewed couples and singles, and studied every principle on dating, love, and marriage I could find — especially in Scripture. The more I aligned with God’s design, the more everything changed.
My wife’s story was different — but just as powerful.
She wasn’t surrounded by marriage growing up. Her mother was unmarried, and the few examples she did see came from her grandparents. She wasn’t raised to be a wife — and that realization hit her hard in her early twenties.
But once she began healing and rediscovering who God truly made her to be, our paths aligned. We met in November 2020, and by December 31st of the same year, we were married. It wasn’t rushed — it was divine. (Click here for our full story.)
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Together, we’ve accepted the call: to prepare a generation for Kingdom love and raise up Kingdom marriages.
Why? Because Kingdom marriages don’t just bless the couple — they shape families, communities, and generations. This is what “Thy Kingdom Come” looks like in real life.
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What we teach isn’t based on trends or opinions — it’s rooted in years of prayer, fasting, and divine revelation. The principles we live and share came straight from the heart of God.
This is more than our testimony.
This is your invitation to a love revolution.
Demetric's coaching has been a tremendous help in my journey towards healing, especially in understanding how to accept love. I prayed to God for a husband, and he sent me Demetric first, to help guide and prepare me with practical advice that made a real difference in breaking down the barriers that were holding me back from becoming free. Thanks to Demetric, When he taught me how to heal my soul this has accelerated my path to helping me find my wonderful Husband only three weeks after. Demetric always say's that when you become Rich in Love, you can afford the best that love has to offer. His support has been invaluable, and I'm grateful for the positive changes his coaching has brought into my life.
-Breyona Moss
(now married to Sheldon Moss having met through Demetric)
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What Goes on Inside BRLU?
BRL University takes you on a transformative journey – the Becoming Love program. Here, you'll heal from past hurts, cultivate Christ-like qualities, and confidently step into relationships overflowing with love.
Phase 01
: Heal Your Heart & Cleanse Your Soul
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Have you ever wondered why some relationships struggle in the beginning? Often, it's because people haven't addressed past hurts before entering them.
They expect their partner to fill the void, which can lead to disappointment. At BRL University, we believe true love starts with becoming whole within yourself.
This first phase of Becoming Rich in Love is all about: Healing and Cleansing the Soul! Releasing emotional baggage and finding forgiveness rooted in God's love allows you to move forward with an open heart.
Cleansing Your Soul: Through prayer and reflection, you'll reconnect with the Father and rediscover the peace and joy God desires for his children.
Building a Deep Connection with God: Cultivate a life-giving relationship with Him, finding wholeness, healing, and unwavering love within.
Imagine a heart overflowing with God's love, free from past burdens. Imagine entering future connections already radiating love and ready to share it authentically, Naked & Unashamed.
Phase 02
Discerning Your Perfect Match
Wondering how to find the love of your life?
The answer might surprise you....
Many singles spend years yearning for connection, yet shy away from the very thing that leads to it – dating!
They expect love to magically appear, but true connections require stepping outside your comfort zone.
But what if dating could be a journey of self-discovery and growth?
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Remember Adam in the Garden of Eden? God presented him with all the creatures, but none were a suitable helpmate. Through this process Adam was discerning what he needed in a companion.
Dating without discernment can feel like repeatedly choosing the wrong fruit from a tree. Getting discouraged, wondering why things don't work out.
But by learning to discern God's will and recognizing the Spirit of Christ within others you move closer to finding your perfect match.
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Discernment isn't about getting stuck on why past relationships failed. It's about learning from them, understanding your needs, and making choices that lead you towards a fulfilling connection built on Kingdom Principles.
Phase 03
Partnering in Purpose
Imagine a love story guided by God's hand, leading you to your perfect partner.
By Phase 3 of Becoming Rich In Love With Christ, you've cultivated a transformed heart. You've learned to receive the overflowing love of the Father and walk in forgiveness. Now, it's time to embark on the exciting journey of finding your divinely-matched companion.
Why Partner with the Holy Spirit?
Many people use external tools like tarot cards or astrology to seek answers. But as believers, we have a powerful resource within us – the Holy Spirit.
Through prayer, discernment, and an open heart, the Holy Spirit can guide you in recognizing your ideal partner and navigating the path towards a fulfilling marriage.
